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Mystic Sisters

Mystic Sisters

Date: 2015-04-03
Hi Mystic Sisters

I saw your article n the newspaper and just had to send you a message.

I'm from Jhb but moved down to Ballito mid January 2015 started a new job and living with my family.

It all went well but now I hate going home, I am so unhappy in everything all I want is my mom and dad.

What must I do????

Unhappy


Dear unhappy.

You truly need to work on being happy within you. Whether you are in Johannesburg or Durban,you need to focus on being the best you are. You and your sister are different people and you might rub each other up the wrong way. Stay in Durban, Skype your parents and make it work. All the best.


Hi Mellissa Please help me.

For a long time now I want to own my own home, but my husband says this is impossible, as we don't have the money. He earns well so I don't understand why we cannot. I think I'm unlucky as nothing I want comes true. Thank you.

Housewife


Hello sweetheart.

Things don't fall from the sky. It comes through hard and smartwork. Your husband is right. He cannot afford to buy a house. He is working towards that. It will take another year and a half. Nagging him to no end won't help it. If you want to hurry the process, perhaps you can look at taking a job or working part time.


Dear Mystic Sisters

My husband is planning a fishing trip with the guys. I don't like the idea at all. He thinks nothing of going once a year and spending lots of money. He is normally so careful with money. Does he cheaton me when he goes?

Terina


Dear Terina,

Hey sugar plum, relax. If he was planning to cheat on you, he would stay out of the house more than once a year. How does it feel when you spend money on yourself? Hairdresser, new clothes, makeup? Unfortunatelyhe is not into buying those things for himself so cut him some slack with his trip. He loves you and adores you being you. Don't turn into a bunny boiler!


Dear Mellissa and Jayshree

Two years ago my father passed away. I am so angry. He helped so many people but now no one is here to help my mum. She has high blood pressure and cries herself to sleep. How do I react to everyone?

Ajnabee


My dear heart.

Sending you love, hugs and courage your way. I can relate totally to you and understand how hurt you must feel. Be strong for your mum. Looking at the cards. Your father was ready to go and it was his time. His message to you is. 'You are my son' I see him smiling and has a crooked tooth. You need to sort your teeth out as well. As for the family. The will get their due in their time. Don't involve your karmic path being angry with them.