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Mystic sister

Mystic sister

Date: 2015-02-27
Hi Mellissa

I'm 29 years old have a child who is 7. I'm divorced for 6years now and I'm still single.I just want toknow if I will find love again and get married again. Will Iget a good job. Please help

Kitty


Hi Kitty,

Currently your life looks like a mess and you feel so frustrated. You are generally a happy, lovable person. Your temper is going to push people away. There is another commitment for you. But you will only start meeting genuine people from late next year. Right now I see clueless playboys pretending to be men. Bond with your child. Job prospects are sooner but you seem to feel a bit demotivated. Get that confidence back on!

Dear Mystic Sisters

My husband and I recently moved to KZN. I am so insecure as I don't know anyone here. We are planning to start a business.Was this a good move?

Mrs F

Hello dollikins!

It was a good move. Moving is one of the most stressful things to go through and can place undue strain on your relationship. Your husband needs your magical personality back as it generally keeps him motivated. This will prove to be a successful decision. Be patient. In the meantime, network. Join social groups and clubs to widen your network professionally and socially. 'A simple hello can lead to a million things'


Dearest Mellissa

Thank you for your column. I find it very inspiring. How can we contact you privately? In the meantime, my big question is as follows. My brother and my husband do not get on. Will this improve? We are going away to a destination wedding and I don't wAnt these two to ruin it.

Anxious wife.


Hello sweet stuff. Thank you for reading this column. I now live in London and am available on Skype and telephonic. Jayshree is in Westville. I run a Twitter hour each Tuesday where you can join the #twitterparty and tweet your question @mysticsistersfor an instant response. Your husband is more tolerant than your brother. Invite them both out for lunch. Write down exactly how you feel towards each of them. How utterly ridiculous their behaviour becomes in public and that they should practise patience or good manners. They both love you and do not realise how deeply their behaviour has impacted upon you.They will eventually get on.


Dear Mystic Sisters

There is a girl who sends me bad messages on Facebook. What should I do? She is in my school. I told my dad, he says ignore her.

Tinker bell


Hello lovely,

She is abusing your private space. You can report and block her on social media. Her behaviour won't stop. Speak to your mum about it. I can see you find it difficult to communicate with your mum but this issue will bring you and your mum closer. This girl will continue to bully you. Please do not think bad things about your lovely self. We are all created different and unique. Your mum will sort it out.