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Planning the Wedding Is Easy. Planning the Marriage Matters More

Planning the Wedding Is Easy. Planning the Marriage Matters More

Author: By Fawzia Khan
Date: 2026-06-26

On 31 May 2026, I had the privilege of presenting at "The Wedding Expo" held at the Umhlanga Apart- Hotel, where I addressed one of the most overlooked aspects of marriage: the legal consequences that arise the moment a couple says "I do.

" While weddings are often planned with romance, excitement, and optimism, in my professional experience, very few couples spend enough time discussing the legal and financial realities that accompany marriage. Yet marriage is one of the most significant legal contracts a person will ever enter into.

I unpack some of the key points of the presentation. There are three matrimonial property systems recognised in South Africa: marriage in community of property, marriage out of community of property with accrual, and marriage out of community of property without accrual. Many people are surprised to learn that if no Ante-Nuptial Contract (ANC) is signed before marriage, the default position is marriage in community of property, meaning both assets and debts form part of a joint estate.

One of the strongest messages of the presentation was that an ANC is not a plan for divorce-it is a plan for responsible financial management. It creates certainty, encourages financial transparency, and protects both spouses against unforeseen risks. This is particularly important for professionals, entrepreneurs, business owners, and those entering second marriages or blended family arrangements.

Contrary to popular belief, Ante-Nuptial Contracts are not only for wealthy individuals. They are practical tools that assist ordinary couples in managing debt exposure, protecting inheritances, preserving family wealth, and avoiding costly disputes later.

On the issue maintenance, it's important to know that apart from maintenance of the children, each spouse has a legal duty to maintain the other spouse [in accordance with their means]. Many people incorrectly believed that maintenance obligations end when a child turns 18, or that only fathers are responsible for paying maintenance.

South African law imposes a duty of support on both parents according to their means and the needs of the child. There is also growing legal responsibilities which could arise for step-parents and grandparents, under certain circumstances.

The presentation also looked at the realities of modern relationships in the digital age. Social media, WhatsApp messages, screenshots, and electronic communications increasingly feature as evidence in divorce litigation.

As I remarked during the presentation, "the cellphone is often the most important witness in the room." Estate planning and wills formed another critical part of the discussion. Many people assume their spouse will automatically inherit everything when they die. Unfortunately, this is not always the case.

Dying without a valid will can result in family disputes, delays in estate administration, frozen bank accounts, and uncertainty regarding the care of minor children. The overarching theme of the presentation was simple: preparation is not pessimism. We buy insurance, draft wills, and structure our businesses not because we expect disaster, but because life is unpredictable. The same principle applies to marriage.

Love, trust, and commitment remain the foundation of every successful marriage. However, informed decision-making, proper legal planning, and honest financial conversations provide the protection that allows couples to build their futures with confidence. Marriage is emotional-but it is also legal, financial, and practical. The best time to plan is before you need the protection.

Know your rights! The Law Desk of Fawzia Khan and Associates. Giving YOU the Power of Attorney. Email fawzia@thelawdesk.co.za or call 031-5025670 for legal assistance at competitive rates.