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Mysitic Sisters

Mysitic Sisters

Date: 2015-03-27
Dear Mellissa

Thank you for giving us the opportunity to write in. I would love to meet you one day. Please advise me. My son has married a lady from hell. She beats up my grand children and refuses to visit me. What can I do to improve this?

Concerned nani.


Dear Nani.

Sending you love and hugs. She believes in physical punishment and will enforce it. I do see your son agreeing with her. I do not believe in violence and will not condone it. However, I do not see her physically harming the children where social services will step in. You have an extra dislike for her due to what your son tells you. That is forgivable. If she was as bad as he claims, he would move out. He needs to pull on his big boy boxers and stop complaining. He needs to address his wife's behaviour and you need to advise him regarding that.


Dear Mystic Sisters

Please help. My husband drinks alot and he then spends alot of his money on friends. He talks down to me. Then he apologises. I am so gatvol of his behaviour. He refuses to stop. Will I be happy if I leave?

Distressed wife


Hello sweetheart.

Your husband is emotionally abusing you. He does have a drinking problem and does need to address that. You will be happier if you leave, however, I do see you are not emotionally ready to make any big steps. Suggest counselling. Do not give him an ultimatum. Tell him you would like to work through this with him. When you see him being disinterested, that will be your cue to leave.


Dear Mellissa and Jayshree

I have met a girl on a social media site. She has been reluctant to meet. Does she like me?

Andrew


Dear Andrew.

You have been catfished!

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=catfished


Dear Mellissa.

Will I ever look beautiful. I am 15 and feel so ugly.

Trapped


Hey gorgeous.

Will you ever look beautiful? No! You are and will look stunning. Get those silly ideas out of your head. When we get sad or depressed, we do end up looking odd. That is cos we feel odd. I have seen your pic on bbm and you are lovely. Step up that confidence honey. Let go of the emotional junk. And do keep in touch on twitter.